Should I be a tom boy?

I always pose as a girly girl to hide the fact that I am gay. But I've always been a tom boy, wearing sporty clothes and doing boyish things. But a couple years ago I moved to a small town in PA and Ive been acting and looking so much like a girl. wearing makeup and dresses because I get more positive attention that way because I look prettier like that. Where I live, no girls are Tom boys. but I like wearing boyish clothes and put on axe b/c it smells awesome. Should I keep being a poser? I just want to be accepted. do you have any imput? Lady Gagas song born this way is making me rethink my current style haha