Neeedd help plz.!?

Honey there is NO EASY WAY TO DUMP SOMEONE!!!! I can tell you are a good person becuz most chicks would have just cheated. I think it is sweet that you care about his feelings. You are trying to not have him be jaded from this. Let him know that you are looking for someone that can take control of a situation. You understand that this is his first real relationship and you don't want to hurt him in any way but you need more intimacy in a relationship. Not . But explain what you are looking for. Just be honest. Obviously don't tell him about the other guy you have crushing on. If you guys continue to be friends then you should be able to see when he getting over you. But I would wait until it seems that he has moved on in some way. Not necessarily another girl but maybe a better mood or something like that. When you do decide to get with this guy....DO NOT bring him around your ex until you know FOR SURE that he won't be devastated by what he sees. Now I am not saying put your love life on hold, but since it appears that you have his best interest at heart, that is why I say take it slow. You can start getting to know to this guy whenever you want. It is the dating part that you would want to be careful with. Just don't throw it in his face that you found someone new so quickly. Good Luck sweetie!!